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I couldn't believe it, but I was shown proof. And another forum admin helped prove Admin C was stalking my posts despite a force ignore being placed on her account for my protection. She was caught bypassing it with alternate accounts which only had activity recorded by the forum searching for and reading my posts, and had her main account banned. Besides one last case, this is the last time she ever bothered me. Her five-year long scheme failed and everyone got caught and punished. | I couldn't believe it, but I was shown proof. And another forum admin helped prove Admin C was stalking my posts despite a force ignore being placed on her account for my protection. She was caught bypassing it with alternate accounts which only had activity recorded by the forum searching for and reading my posts, and had her main account banned. Besides one last case, this is the last time she ever bothered me. Her five-year long scheme failed and everyone got caught and punished. | ||
I'd | I never looked her up at all after 2011, but occasionally someone would contact me to discuss it or by happenstance she'd be somewhere I went without knowing she'd be there and she'd talked about things going on. A lot I learned way after the fact because I am not a stalker like her. | ||
I'd learned for the period of time she was obsessed with hurting me, she'd totally ruined her life with her behavior. Only improving after her stalking and harassment if me was exposed. She went from bad relationship to bad relationship, usually juggling multiple guys at once -- without their knowledge, constantly being horrible to each one. And I later found out she was polyamorous. And she seemed to hate me so much because I was not okay with it. Apparently twisting it into me being some horrible bigot which is how she got so many people to hate me. | |||
However, I never said I was morally opposed to multiple partner relationships. What I actually had said was I didn't want to be involved in one myself, especially with it being kept a secret from me. There's nothing fundamentally wrong with being polyamorous, provided you get consent from all involved, which she didn't with me, the other two guys at that time, or anyone else I heard about later. | |||
One of her exes actually came to me and apologized for not believing my warnings about her and said it was an absolute nightmare. She also failed college in her first attempt, in her case from aggression from what former friends of hers told me, and it took her years to get back to it and finally finish a couple degrees. Good for you, I'll admit that much, you got there in the end at least. Had she focused on that instead of making my life hell every day for five years she could have gotten it the first time though. | |||
And for context, she constantly made fun of my college failure in September 2008 to May 2009. That was not my fault at all. My parents threatened to cut me off and disown me (they loved dangling that threat in my face to get their way) if I didn't take a medication which didn’t help me at all and they refused to listen to me about it. It instead made me zone out so hard I lost hours of time every day so badly I couldn't remember any of it and failed most of my classes because of it. Which she thought was a great thing to ridicule me for. Repeatedly, for years... so karma I guess? | |||
Also she was never able to hold onto friends that I knew of. Maybe that's changed today, hopefully it has. Everyone needs to grow. Still, even those temporary consequences worked for me. You think it's okay to treat people like this, you had it coming. I considered the matter closed. And I moved on. | |||
==The Final Revelation== | ==The Final Revelation== | ||
